Don't talk to them until they're practically begging for forgiveness. If they didn't want to upset me then they shouldn't have said what they did, end of story. Be wary. Now that they've upset you once there's no saying they won't do it again, even if they are close to you. Since when did I next talk to them? That was the end of our webcam chats. I don't want to talk to them any more.
Search Speak now. Do You Hold A Grudge? Questions and Answers. Your little sister has scribbled over your homework in felt tip. You know she didn't mean to - she's only two years old - but you worked really hard on it. Do you:. Moan at your parents to tell her off. She's two - surely she's old enough to understand? Scribble all over her beloved baby books in felt tip. See how she likes it. You and another person both go for a place in the hockey team. They get the place and you don't.
Definitely or probably bad. Possibly bad. Not bad. Did they know they were upsetting, hurting or being unfair to you? Yes, definitely. Not at all. Very serious. Somewhat serious. You can unsubscribe at any time. The Carat-based Grudge Grading System. Was the intention of the grudgee: a definitely or probably bad b possibly bad c not bad 2. Was the overall situation: a very serious b quite serious c not very serious 4.
Was the effect upon you of what they did or said: a very bad b quite bad c not so bad 5. Take this number forward to the next part of the grading process… 9. Would this incident, alone, be sufficient to make you hold a grudge about this person or people: a yes b no, only with other incidents taken into account too If you answered a , your total points remain unchanged.
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